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I'm not sure which post I should be responding to as there seems to be at least two where the subject has degenerated into personal attacks on one of this forum's most prolific poster, Parla. This one seems to as good a place as any. Like many other forum members, I have difficulty understanding the meaning of Parla's posts and I have sometimes been frustrated and somewhat disappointed by his responses, while recognising he does not need to agree to anything I write. I know Gramophone expects the forum to be largely self-moderated but sometimes the personal attacks on Parla go too far. Some of the lack of understanding of Parla's posts I attribute to the fact that English language is not his mother tongue and while I have no knowledge of his nationality, his command of English is better than my command of other languages. Consequently, a significant number of the meaning of his contributions I think are, for want of a better phrase, lost in translation. I must admit there have been times when I have been tempted to alter the grammar in Parla's posts to convey what I think he means but that would be disrespectful to him and a step too far. Speaking of going a step too far, when comments are made about how Parla's wife puts up with him isn't that overstepping the mark?

Above all, Parla's love of classical music is to be highly commended and while at times I think his fervour in "championing the cause" is unnecessary and somewhat misplaced on a classical music forum, his heart is in the right place. Several contributors have commented that they listened to unfamiliar works they may not have bothered with had not Parla suggested them and have been enriched by the experience. Parla may not be an expert of each corner of the repertoire and for that matter who can be? But I bet if I asked him for a recommendation of a fine recording of a certain piece he would be able to do so without hesitation and I would be unlikely to be disappointed. If I was I am confident that I could discuss that with him.

Of course, as we have seen, Parla is more than capable of defending himself but when attempts go as far as to suggest he should be banned from the forum I think this is several steps too far. After all nobody forces us to read, let alone contribute. By all means challenge, disagee and offer alternative points of view but can we please enter into civilised yet spirited debate without losing focus on the subject which unites us all, namely our love of what is loosely termed classical music.

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parla wrote:
- When the debate has to do with subjects on music (including the "battle of genres"), I bring to the table messages, based on musical evidence (evidence based on the music-making process, structure of composition, etc.). They do not represent my view only and I clearly say so.

- If I have to comment on performances (since there is no common musical basis on the perfect one), I mostly refer to my preferences or appreciation, which, however, are my own perception and constitute the "cheap commodity" of my opinion.

I hope it is clear now.

Parla

 

All that is clear is that you are talking nonsense – as usual.

There is absolutely no distinction between music and performances to the extent that making distinctions between good, bad and indifferent is purely a matter of opinion. To suggest that your assertion that even the most banal piece of classical music is greater than any piece of music of any other genre is not your view, but is a matter of objective fact is simply ludicrous. Nor have you, as far as I can recall, once put forward any ‘musical evidence’ to support such assertions – unless you are referring to your bizarre statement that classical music is superior because it is based on written scores. Is that what you mean by ‘evidence’? It barely deserves the title of a cheap commodity – it would be more accurate to describe it as a totally worthless commodity.

 

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CraigM wrote:

 To suggest that your assertion that even the most banal piece of classical music is greater than any piece of music of any other genre is not your view, but is a matter of objective fact is simply ludicrous. Nor have you, as far as I can recall, once put forward any ‘musical evidence’ to support such assertions – unless you are referring to your bizarre statement that classical music is superior because it is based on written scores. 

 

I believe this to an accurate account of Parla's position. 

Now, Parla, here is an opportunity to make your argument in a way that avoids what so exasperates your critics.  Put forward a case by sticking to the point, avoid denying previous pronouncements and positions, and just hint that there is a possibility, however remote, that your case may be open to criticism.  Go on, you can do it old chum!

Vic.

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I think Caballe covers me completely with his eloquent, most civilised and heartfelt post. I fully subscribe to this.

So, I have to refrain from keeping up with a fruitless and uncivilised debate with Graig. I have simply to point out that, if everything is a matter of opinion to him, Life is not. And Art (and Music as well) is a product of our life. So, its existence, value, development go beyond our opinions, perceptions and taste. For some of us, who happen to be closer to the music making process, there are values beyond what we are able or wish to comprehend, like or appreciate. We try to attain them and we are not the only ones.

Of course, I can't deny to anyone the right to believe, as his/her opinion, that any evaluation, "distinction between bad and good or indifferent" in Art (and Music) are "purely a matter of opinion". At the end of the day, we should have a debate on what "opinion" is all about. How do we evaluate different opinions? Does it matter who is the one who holds the opinion in question and some more? However, based on many previous calls, appeals and suggestions (including mine) and particularly the brilliant post of Caballe, let's stick to the Classical Music.

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Parla,

Craig makes a specific and concrete point, I suggest you give him a direct answer - and this is what you come up with!   This is prevarication and sophistry not reasoned argument.  Can't you see how provocative this is?  Is it any wonder you provoke such passion? 

Vic.

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No, my old chum Vic. I can't see that. I see, on the contrary, that you provoke a further discussion on a "saturated" matter that has led to nowhere except some repeated verbal abusive language at any response by the "other side". The worst thing : in the name of reason and logic! Perfect!

You should know by now that I don't avoid any debate, when there is a slight hope for some convergence of views. If there is no hope whatsoever for any reasonable and civilised discussion, I guess we have to accept and respect our "artistic" differences. It's too little, but we avoid the worse (bad language, going to personal attacks, loosing our composure and some more).

Parla

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No, my old chum Vic. I can't see that. I see, on the contrary, that you provoke a further discussion on a "saturated" matter that has led to nowhere except some repeated verbal abusive language at any response by the "other side". The worst thing : in the name of reason and logic! Perfect!

You should know by now that I don't avoid any debate, when there is a slight hope for some convergence of views. If there is no hope whatsoever for any reasonable and civilised discussion, I guess we have to accept and respect our "artistic" differences. It's too little, but we avoid the worse (bad language, going to personal attacks, loosing our composure and some more).

Parla

Avoiding all "bad language, personal attacks and losing [my] composure", I state here that you do indeed avoid debate when you see no "hope of some convergence" - which seems to mean, agreement with your position.  Also, that a "saturated" topic is one you can no further defend - especially when it requires "the worst thing" - "reason and logic".

Why does it suddenly become "personal" when you are asked a specific question that requires a detailed answer, like CraigM's last above?

You have no grounds to accuse me of being personal or abusive, but I notice that you get very defensive - indeed, indignant - when you are pinned down to the specific and when vague generalities no longer wash.  There comes a point where avoiding the specific devalues the general argument. 

On Craig's question above, you are at that point now.  What'll it be, more waffle or a straight answer? 

Vic.

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I have given a lot of "straight answers" at no avail, Vic.

I don't see what's the point to provide any kind of response to someone, starting his post (as a reply to mine) with the word "nonsense-as usual" and, then, he pronounces the dogma :"There is absolutely no distinction between music and performances to the extent...is purely a matter of opinion".

I wonder if the above statement is a personal opinion or a fact of Music (and Art, in general), because if it's the former, I don't see why I have to answer. Opinions are in abundance (Quot homines tot sententiae). I don't see why he (and you or anybody else) should be defensive of this position. It has the same value as any other opinion. If it is a fact, however, then, we have to agree, first, on the terms of reference and, then...

In any case, it is not your role or business to play the defense of Mr. CraigM. I think you deserve a better position than instigating a new debate on matters that are not of the interest of other members, at a moment when, at least two of them made very reasonable, sincere and heartfelt appeals to all of us to desist, refrain and focus on Classical Music only, as this forum dictates.

Parla

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Good grief, is there no end to it?

No matter how many times a hole is blown in his "objectivity" and no matter how many times he is accused of not answering he still persists.

How does he find the time to listen to music, let alone surf Wikepedia?

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parla wrote:

I have given a lot of "straight answers" at no avail, Vic.

 

We have a very different definition of "straight", Parla!

parla wrote:

 

I
don't see what's the point to provide any kind of response to someone

You always respond Parla.  It is the nature of the response that is in question.

 

parla wrote:

 

In
any case, it is not your role or business to play the defense of Mr.
CraigM. I think you deserve a better position than instigating a new
debate on matters that are not of the interest of other members

First, I am not defending CraigM, I would simply like his point addressed by you.  

Secondly, I do not think it is up to you to say what my role or business is, nor in fact, what is of interest to other members.

Vic.

 

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So, you like to make circles on the same theme, Vic.

"We have different definition of straight", because we deal with opinions. So, we have to agree on the terms of reference in any debate from now on. There should be a short of "objectivity" beyond mere opinions (and personal definitions).

I always respond to those I see there is even the slightest hope of communication. Based on the answers I received, I have the right to choose (like any other member) the "nature" of my response.

You might not defend Graig, but it looks like that (that's an opinion).

About your "role or business" again, I express my opinion (this cheap commodity) or a suggestion. As for the "interest to other members", it was again my opinion, based on the recent posts of Caballe and Ganymede as well as my interpretation of the telling silence of so many members of this forum.

Shall we cut this gordian knot?

Parla

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parla wrote:

About your "role or business" again, I express my opinion (this cheap commodity) or a suggestion. As for the "interest to other members", it was again my opinion, based on the recent posts of Caballe and Ganymede as well as my interpretation of the telling silence of so many members of this forum.

Shall we cut this gordian knot?

Parla

You've identified the reason, the only reason, there's any response to your posts. Again and again other forum members have driven a coach and horses through the huge holes in you arguments, yet still (the plastic budgie, the mosquito) you keep coming and coming. Anyone with any self-awareness, any hint of sensitivity, would have long realized how foolish he looked. In the end, we give up because you're either too dense or too thick skinned to know when you're beaten. This isn't a 'telling silence', it's a result of boredom and frustration. You're a classic internet forum creation, Parla. In a face-to-face debate you'd be laughed to shame or your adversaries would leave to find someone more sensible to talk to, or you'd be nursing a black eye.

So now you've got two supporters. Ganymede we'll excuse. He hasn't had time to get to know you yet. All I'll say to Caballe is back six months ago I put in a post asking other members to bear in mind your thoughts may have been lost in translation. I've long since abandoned that position. The many negative qualities you possess, detailed in post after post by other members, come through in any language.

You're single-handedly turning this forum into a tedious squabble. No sooner have you finished upsetting forum members in one thread than you're starting fires in another one. One is tempted, as many members have been in the past, to give up and go elsewhere for intelligent discussion. It's impossible to ignore you because you're invasive. You don't know when you're beaten or when to shut up.

The only solution is to have Parla-free threads - threads in which you're not allowed to participate. You can conduct your circumlocutory nonsense with members who haven't got to know you yet or can't see through you, and leave the rest of us to dialogue in peace.

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I find myself compelled to respond as briefly as possible to a second more than 400 word post, entirely devoted to me (in few hours).

You think you are so perceptive of someone who is totally a "shadow" identity (like anybody else) in this forum. You selectively cut and paste the parts that can be convenient for the arguments you wish to build. You become utterly offensive in the name of a Holy Grail against the "barbarian" or the "infidel", who happen to dare to defend his (and not only) knowledge, credo and information on the Classical Music.

However, I would overlook everything, but I find myself obliged to underline the dangerously and blatantly offensive comments of yours "in a face-to-face debate". You have no clue whatsoever about who might be Parla. So, moderation wouldn't hurt at all. For your information, in my lifetime (and I'm not a youngster at all), I neither had been "laughed to shame" nor I'd be ever "nursing a black eye" (that's too low)!

Finally, how do you anticipate to have "Parla-free threads" ("threads in which you're not allowed (!!!) to participate")? Don't you think that this might not even be politically correct? Let alone what kind of dangerous precedent may create.

Moderation is a virtue (even if Parla wishes to reach a harsh high C. When Tagalie reaches some high strained Gs, I tolerate, follow and sometimes even enjoy the zeal behind them).

Parla

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parla wrote:

 

 

Finally, how do you anticipate to have "Parla-free threads" ("threads in which you're not allowed (!!!) to participate")?

Parla

 

I've no idea, but at least there'd be a few threads I might be tempted to read.At the moment, as soon as I see Parla has participated in a thread, I switch off.

Incidentally I am breaking my rule never to respond to a Parla statement. This is a one off.

 

 

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Never say never, TL1. Exceptions reinforce the rule.

Who knows? Sometimes you may find out that you have to respond, anyway. Discrimination should not be always the rule.

I hope you may allow me to respond to your posts.

Parla